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ACCOUNTABILITY BEGINS WITH INTENTION
In “Accountability Begins with Intention,” Clay Stafford reframes accountability as something that starts long before action. Rather than focusing on deadlines or performance, he emphasizes the importance of setting clear, purposeful intentions that guide consistent behavior—arguing that true accountability is rooted in clarity, commitment, and personal ownership.
Between Pen and Paper: Flaneuring Through a Writer’s Mind – The Manual of Becoming a Tree
In this contemplative installment of Between Pen and Paper, Andi Kopek explores what writers can learn from trees—stillness, patience, interconnectedness, and quiet growth. “The Manual of Becoming a Tree” blends philosophy, nature, and craft to reframe writing not as constant output, but as a process of deep attention, rooted presence, and gradual transformation.
THE HABIT OF FORWARD
In “The Habit of Forward,” Clay Stafford explores the quiet discipline of continuing to move ahead—especially when motivation fades or clarity is uncertain. Through reflection and experience, he reveals how progress is less about inspiration and more about consistency, showing that forward motion, no matter how small, is what ultimately shapes both the work and the writer.
THE FIRST MOMENTUM
In “The First Momentum,” Clay Stafford reflects on the subtle but powerful moment when effort begins to shape direction. What starts as a small, almost unnoticed impulse grows into a force that builds confidence, discipline, and forward motion—revealing how even the simplest actions can spark lasting change.
THE QUIETNESS BENEATH THE STRIVING
In “The Quietness Beneath the Striving,” Clay Stafford reflects on a life driven by constant motion and ambition, only to discover a profound shift when the striving finally quiets. In that stillness, he confronts the deeper question of identity—who we are without the chase—and explores the peace, clarity, and self-understanding that emerge when we stop pushing and simply listen.
WHEN BEING SEEN WAS COSTING ME MY VOICE
In “When Being Seen Was Costing Me My Voice,” Clay Stafford reflects on the hidden cost of visibility—how recognition, success, and constant presence can slowly erode authenticity. As he examines the tension between being seen and truly being heard, he uncovers the quiet realization that reclaiming one’s voice sometimes requires stepping back, setting boundaries, and redefining what it means to show up.
Between Pen and Paper: Flaneuring Through a Writer’s Mind – Column 14: The Missing Hour: The Curious Elasticity of Time
In this installment of Between Pen and Paper, Andi Kopek explores the strange, elastic nature of time—from the lost hour of daylight saving to the way memory, storytelling, and even planetary movement reshape how we experience it. Blending science, literature, and personal reflection, “The Missing Hour” invites writers to consider how time bends not only in the universe, but on the page.
MEETING MYSELF LATER THAN EXPECTED
In “Meeting Myself Later Than Expected,” Clay Stafford reflects on a quiet but profound personal transformation—one that arrived without announcement or ceremony. As he observes subtle changes in how he responds to others, sets boundaries, and values his own time and energy, he realizes he has outgrown an earlier version of himself. The essay explores identity, self-awareness, and the gradual shedding of roles that no longer serve us.
There’s No One Right (or Write) Way
In “There’s No One Right (or Write) Way,” bestselling author Lois Winston reflects on the overwhelming flood of writing advice that authors encounter online and in the publishing industry. From contradictory craft rules to questionable experts, Winston reminds writers that every author develops their own process over time. Through humor, personal experience, and practical insight, she encourages writers to think critically about advice, trust their instincts, and remember that there is no universal formula for success.
LIMITS
In “Limits,” Clay Stafford reflects on the lifelong belief that success requires pushing through every obstacle and never admitting weakness. Over time, however, he realized that ignoring personal limits can lead to exhaustion, frustration, and a narrowing of curiosity and creativity. Rather than being barriers, limits can act as guides—helping us focus our energy on what truly matters and preserving the clarity, purpose, and depth that meaningful work requires.
THE CHAIR IS STILL THERE
On mornings when creativity feels hollow and momentum seems absent, Clay Stafford learned a crucial lesson: the work of a life isn’t built on inspiration or certainty. In “The Chair Is Still There,” he reflects on how discipline, presence, and the simple act of returning to his chair—cup of coffee in hand—reframe his creative life, strengthen his relationship to his art, and allow meaning to emerge without fanfare.
THE WORLD GOT WIDER
For years, Clay Stafford believed that meaningful work required external confirmation—applause, validation, or visible momentum—but that belief quietly narrowed his life and creative choices. In this reflective craft essay, he explores how releasing the need for approval transformed uncertainty from a warning into a companion, allowing courage, creative freedom, and authentic purpose to take the lead in both writing and life.
Japanese Literary Terms
Neil Plakcy introduces fifteen essential Japanese literary terms—like aware, jo-ha-kyū, mono no aware, and wabi-sabi—and shows how they can deepen emotional resonance in your writing. A guide to using cultural concepts to enrich storytelling, create atmosphere, and enhance character expression.
Between Pen and Paper: Flaneuring Through a Writer’s Mind – Writing at the Speed of a Melting Popsicle
Stream-of-consciousness writing captures thoughts in their raw, unfiltered form. In this essay, Andi Kopek reflects on memory, history, morality, and creativity—beginning with something as simple as a melting popsicle.
Between Pen and Paper: Flaneuring Through a Writer’s Mind – The Many Flavors of “No”
Rejection isn’t the exception in a writer’s life—it’s the main course. In this wry, heartfelt essay, Andi Kopek serves up strategies for transforming rejection into nourishment for the creative soul, reminding writers they’re still cooking—even when they’re not the flavor of the day.
Overcoming Blinking Cursor Syndrome
USA Today bestselling author Lois Winston explores the reality of writer’s block—aka Blinking Cursor Syndrome—and offers practical, experience-backed advice to overcome it. From news-inspired story prompts to the fine art of eavesdropping and setting boundaries, this article delivers insightful tips to reignite your creativity and get your writing flowing again.
Between Pen and Paper: Flaneuring Through a Writer’s Mind – Finding Inspiration
Inspiration is a mysterious force that drives writers. In this column, we explore how to find inspiration in everyday life, personal experiences, and nature, and how these moments fuel our creativity and storytelling.
Motivation and Thrilling Places
Sometimes it takes more than discipline to write—it takes inspiration. From the elegance of NYC’s Rose Reading Room to the historic charm of Georgetown, this post explores how thrilling places can reignite your passion for writing and transport you into your creative zone.
The Writer’s Playbook: When Your Journey Collapses
When disaster hit the Pontiac Silverdome, it set off a chain reaction that reshaped the future of the Detroit Pistons. In this powerful reflection, a former staffer draws striking parallels between that collapse and the author’s journey—reminding us that breakdowns often ignite the boldest breakthroughs.
The Writer’s Playbook: The Drummer Boy
From writing a Christmas musical that touched thousands to publishing suspense novels, this is the story of how one writer’s unexpected journey—from church skits to book deals—became a masterclass in creativity, calling, and perseverance.
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