Freedom Fighters: Harness the Power of Motivation and Discipline to Beat Procrastination
By Mary Lynn Cloghesy and Jason Schembri
One common foe all writers face, regardless of genre, is procrastination. It’s inevitable for anyone in a deadline-driven profession. Whether you are writing for yourself or a publisher, you are bound to run into this anti-hero in the dark corners of your mind, who will try to lead you down pathways that go nowhere, then abandon you at the end. If you make the long journey back to where you started, it will be waiting for you, tapping its foot, wondering what will work this time… that article you plan to write, why bother… the chapter you want to finish, no one will read it… these deadlines, all irrelevant... Even Charles Dickens has something to say on the matter: “Never do tomorrow what you can do today. Procrastination is the thief of time.”
“Procrastination” is derived from the Latin verb procrastinare—to put off until tomorrow—but it’s more complex than a simple delay. It’s a state of mind. Coleridge used the term, a “tomorrower,” in 1810 for someone caught in the grips of procrastination. Certain studies suggest it’s a strategy to manage negative emotions like self-doubt that cause you to avoid what is beneficial; others define it as intention alone without any follow-through. Regardless, it can become a self-destructive cycle. As writers, we are especially susceptible to procrastination because our rewards don’t come immediately. It can be years before any hard work pays off, particularly if you are seeking recognition by the industry, which makes this enemy even more powerful.
Add to that our propensity to judge ourselves harshly, and we can back ourselves into a corner. As Megan McArdle explains in an article in The Atlantic, “Most writers manage to get by because, as the deadline creeps closer, their fears of turning in nothing eventually surpasses their fears of turning in something terrible.” Can we do better than that? Only if we are intentional in our approach, as research has revealed that nearly 80% of our thoughts are negative and 95% are repeated on an endless loop, both of which keep us moving through a labyrinth of excuses and missed opportunities. William James, father of American psychology, has famously said, “a great many people think they are thinking, when they are merely rearranging their prejudices.”
So, how do we combat this formidable opponent? We need a team of superheroes: Motivation and Discipline. Mirriam-Webster defines motivation as “a stimulus, force, or influence,” using the word “incentive” and “drive” as comparatives, whereas discipline is described as “control gained by enforcing obedience or order,” then sadly adds “punishment” as a synonym. At first glace, the words “motivation” and “discipline” seem to be opposite in nature, so we need to unpack these terms to understand how they can beat procrastination.
At the beginning of a project when your ideas are flowing and any deadlines are in the distant future, your motivation is typically high. You want to do your chosen task, putting pen to paper (metaphorically.) Yet, procrastination is hiding in the background, silent and invisible, lying in wait. Motivation will be the first thing to come under attack, as it’s prone to the vagaries of your mood, emotions, and external influences. Enter discipline, who you might think of as the “big brother” of motivation. Discipline can help you get back on track, although its influence may be fleeting, if you resist it because you feel chastised. Clearly, these two need to work together to win the day.
Strategies to Keep You Motivated
Because motivation is higher in the early stages of writing, we’ll address it first. By training this superhero, you’ll learn to sustain your efforts, until it’s time for discipline to step in to help you accomplish your goals. Here are some tools and strategies to consider:
Use “The Five Second Rule,” by self-help author, Mel Robbins.
The premise is that when you have an idea, your brain will KILL the impulse in five seconds unless you act upon it. To apply this concept, count down from five to one, then follow-through on an action that implements or supports the idea immediately. For writers, this may mean free-writing for a few minutes to “prime the pump,” when the countdown ends, or firing up the work-in-progress that you’ve been avoiding.Ask yourself: what do you want NOW versus MOST. When you feel distracted or lose interest in your long-term goal, such as finishing a novel, it can be easy for short term “wants” to take precedence over delayed desires. This is where you need to step back and ask yourself, “what do I want NOW, and what do I want MOST?” If they happen to align, that’s great, but if not, use this question to determine what matters to you most. Alignment can and will happen more often, the more you implement this strategy.
Commit to a Mirror Moment. What is a mirror moment, you might be wondering…it’s a strategy to bring to light the fears and resistance you experience in the dark recesses of your mind. If most of our thoughts are unproductive, taking up space that could be used for creative work, then we need to call them out. More importantly, we need to recognize the internal dialogue that is disabling us by asking ourselves if what that inner voice says is true, especially when procrastination is speaking. To implement this strategy, stand in front of a mirror, and say OUT LOUD what you’re thinking. Next, ask yourself if it’s true (spoiler alert: procrastination always lies). Finally, smile and tell it to STAND DOWN. This is the transitional step where discipline can begin to take hold. It’s more powerful than you realize, although it can feel a little uncomfortable the first few times you try it.
How to Build Discipline (Without Punishment)
When considering the notion of discipline, it’s crucial to separate it from punishment. The first is positive and productive, whereas the second is painful and punitive. We can only harness the power of discipline when we embrace habit-building, which is a proactive approach to achieving our goals versus a reactive response to missing our objectives. Writers are hard enough on themselves, right? Our contributions to the craft and canon of writing can, and should, begin with diligent self-care and kindness for ourselves and others. Having clarified that point, let’s consider some strategies to build discipline:
Make Some Space: Sometimes, you’ll experience a legitimate lack of time in your day for writing, but you can do something about that. Try an exercise called Start/Stop/Continue. Find one thing you want to start, preferably writing, then find something that is occupying time that is not beneficial to your forward progression and commit to stop doing it. Anything within your current routine that serves you well can be acknowledged and retained. In this way, you won’t continually add more work to your schedule as you’ll substitute one thing (writing, reading, research time) and stop another. Overburdening yourself creates overwhelm, which fuels procrastination.
“Piggyback” New Habits on Existing Ones: It can feel difficult to build a habit in isolation, so it may help to “piggyback” a new habit on top of an existing one that you already enjoy. For example, we both enjoy our morning coffee, so we decided to “piggyback” our first writing session with that habit. As soon as our cups are filled, we each sit at our desks and fire up our works-in-progress. Now, that these habits are successfully paired, it feels strange not to follow-through. The beauty of piggybacking is that it accelerates the adherence to a new habit, while also creating time efficiency.
Healthy Living Top Tip
Our healthy living top tip this month is to build consistency through repetition. “Persistence in resistance” beats procrastination, every time. It helps to think of writing as a practice, one that requires regular attention, even for short intervals. Protective discipline can’t be built on a one-time effort, but when you string your efforts together on daily basis, for many days in succession, a new habit is formed, and discipline becomes the perfect partner to motivation. Together, they are a dynamic duo that will help you cross the finish line of any writing project.
Freedom Fighters Working for You
Procrastination is one of our biggest enemies, and it is ever-present. If we want to succeed in our writing, we need to be deliberate in our strategy and use strong tools to overcome it. Thankfully, we have the freedom fighters of motivation and discipline by our side. Reviewing our goals on a regular basis will enhance our probability of success too, so procrastination doesn’t take us by surprise. While some effort is involved in building and tracking new habits, consider what science fiction writer Douglas Adams says about the rewards, “I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they made as they go by.” Now, start counting down, 5-4-3-2… and head straight to the mirror for a heart-to-heart with yourself about your writing, acknowledging how much it matters.
Mary Lynn formerly co-owned a therapeutic clinic, and Jason is a long-term weight loss and healthy living coach. Together, they host a writing and hiking retreat in the Canadian Rockies.
